How To Secure Your Relationship

Do you want to be the perfect guy for your girlfriend? Do you want to give your girlfriend the Mr. Right she’s been looking for without changing yourself? If you treat your lady wonderfully, you'll get the same back from her. Isn't that what every guy wants. However, the below tips are what you need on how to secure your relationship.

 Making Her Feel Good, Show her affection. Girls want guys to show them affection because it tells her that you care about her, and that you're willing to show that love in a public way. It doesn't always have to be public (PDA), but get used to the idea, because she wants other people to see how much you love her, so don't be afraid to kiss her or hold her hand in public.

Tell her she's beautiful and always make eye contact. Eye contact shows you mean what you say. When you look away, it will make her question your authenticity, so make eye contact at all times. You have to show her that you mean what you said. If you're really sincere when you tell her how beautiful she is to you, you're going to go a long way. Also, tell her that she drives you crazy, and that she's the prettiest girl you've ever laid eyes on. Tell her that you've never met anyone like her.

Compliment her on her looks, but also on her accomplishments, talents and abilities. If she's a great poker player, tell her she's smart. If she's a good listener, tell her she's great with other people. Tell her you love her. Make sure you mean it. If you're not ready to go there yet, that's fine. But, be sure to switch that "I love you" for a really good "You know how special you are to me?" or  "I like you so much; I'm a really lucky guy."

Simple is best. Stick with "I love you," or "You make me so happy," or “I’m really lucky to have you." Don't be so poetic that you go overboard. These statements make her feel good, and they make her self-confidence soar. Remember, when her self-confidence is high, you benefit. Be steady with your signs of love or affection, enough so that she doesn't forget how much you mean to her, but not so much that the power of the words gets watered down.

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Touch her regularly and it'son the spur of the moment. Even the slightest touch can make a woman feel special. Make sure  a respectful and gentle touch, and not one that's overly s*xual or suggestive. Hold her hand, give her a hug, rub her back, or gently touch her face. These gestures will all make her feel protected and loved! Love her like you would want to be loved.

There's a time and a place for foreplay, but you're not doing yourself any favors if you go there when she's not ready. 

Make sure she's totally comfortable before you start exploring your s*xual relationship. S*x does not define a relationship. If you both agree to hold off, show her you adore her by pleasing her in other ways i.e; deep passionate kisses on her mouth or small pecks all over her body. Women love knowing that their man adores their body and all of it. Put her first, yourself second. Put her needs in front of yours. This does not mean that you are weak. It just means that, most of the time, you're willing to bend for her, even if it was not something you wanted to do.If you believe she is "Ms. Right," then make her your number one priority! They say that love is selfless; you're going to have to prove it to her.

If you're with your friends, never ignore her and start talking with your friends or walk off with them as if she's not there. How would you feel if she did this to you? Invisible, right? Keep close to her or glance at her every so often just to let her know you know she's still there and offer a genuine smile. Listen to her. One of the biggest complaints women have about men is that they don't listen. Even if you're not particularly interested in what she's saying, listen, then acknowledge that you were listening. Let her know that you are the one that she can talk to about anything. Every woman loves a bit of alone-time with her partner. Book a whole day for the two of you to be alone. Watch a movie, massage her back, snuggle and be intimate. Put other thoughts out of your head and focus completely on her. 

You'll notice more of a connection when you do this, and that's what you want. Try to schedule a bit of alone-time with her at least every month or so. Ad Part Two of Four: Treating Her Right, Treat her with dignity. Treating your girl with dignity means treating her the way that you would want to be treated. Don't swear at her, manipulate her, use her for your own benefit, or shoot down her ideas. Making her as happy as possible is a goal, so it's not going to happen overnight. But work toward it slowly, and try as hard as you can, even if you don't succeed. Always stand up for her no matter what. Sticking up for her shows her that you are on her side, and that you're willing to take a public stand for her, which isn't easy. 

At the same time, don't put yourself in an impossible situation. If she's having an argument with her parents  right in front of you, you probably don't want to take a stand and risk upsetting her parents (who might control a lot about her life). Stay out of family matters as much as possible, but give her backup when she asks for it. Don't argue in public and cause a scene. This will humiliate her and you; she'll think twice about going out with you again. Stay calm when you have a fight, try as much as possible not to let your emotions take over, and treat her the way that you want to be treated. Keep your voice down, don't yell at her, and expect to apologize, even if you didn't do anything wrong. An apology goes a long way. Also, call her even if she hangs up. Nothing tells a woman "I want this to work" than a simple phone call.

Share your everyday events and thoughts with your girl. Being open and communicative makes her feel like you want her in your life. Being intimate isn't just about getting to know her body; it's also about sharing the things that happen to you, and going through them together. On the same note, listen to her advice, even if you don't agree. Force yourself to listen and to see her reasoning. Keep an open ear and an open mind. She'll reward you with all of her love. Even if you don't have much to say, let her know on what you're thinking. If you’re the strong, silent type, she may misinterpret your feelings for her. Let her know what you're thinking so that she doesn't get the wrong idea. If she wants to pay for something, let her. Just make sure that the roles aren't reversed. She goes through a lot to look nice for you, and do sweet things for you, so try to pay for majority of things when you get the chance. This isn't about the money.

It's about showing her that you care enough to treat her on occasion. It doesn't have to be all the time, and don't be flashy about it or act like it's a big deal. Letting her know your money is hers as well and vice versa says a lot to her. When she pays for occasional dates for you, it is her way of saying I care about your finances and want to care for you as well. Don't take those moves for granted, be appreciative apart Three or Four Going Beyond What's Expected be romantic. Every girl wants a guy with a sense of romance. Girls like to pretend (deep down inside, mostly; sometimes very literally) that they are stars of their own fairy tale, and they want to be treated like it. 

Show your girl that you care about her by putting a little effort into your romance. Write her love notes. Notes don't have to be long, mushy and poetic if you’re not the type. Quick and silly ones will do just fine. Try to make them cute (girls love things that are "cute," like a drawing) as a way to show her that you care. Write the notes on actual paper, too. Also, a card once in a while will do. Write in your words how you feel. Ask her if she's cold when it's cold out; have a jacket or a sweater handy so you can give it to her.

When she isn't feeling well, or she's sick, bring her some soup, hot tea or flowers. Hold her hand at the movies or when you're walking. Get her something just because. Small things like a single flower, a magazine you know she likes, a bag of her favorite candy or a chocolate bar will go a long way. Show her that you're thinking about her. Remember what she likes and dislikes. Being romantic is all about taking what you know about her and showing her how much these things mean to you. How does she like her eggs cooked? What is her favorite flower? What about perfume? What does she enjoy doing when it comes to dates? What are her favorite books, and her favorite songs?

Remember what she likes to eat and cook it for her. Or remember what kinds of flowers make her feel womanly, and send them to her. Or remember what songs make her want to dance, laugh, and cry, and make a mix for her .Remember important dates. This is a big deal with women. Birthdays, anniversaries and other milestones are all opportunities to show her how special she is to you. Keep an agenda or a calendar with all these dates. When it's her birthday, bring her a present (chocolates, gift certificates, shoes all work great) and send her some flowers. Don't forget to write her a card, being funny and romantic about how she's getting older but that, to you, she'll always be as young as the day when you first saw her.

When it's your anniversary, book something special for you both to let her know how much you appreciate and love her. Make a scrapbook where you keep all the ticket stubs of the places you've gone together, and jot down your memories of the dates. Send her a Facebook video message where you tell her how important she is to you, and how you'll never forget the first date you two went on. Remember that women want to be spoiled on these occasions. Flowers at her door, dinner together in a nice place  these things show that you care.

Conclusion :

Having applied the above procedures, I’m pretty sure that you have secured your relationship from getting spoil.